The 3 Step “Self Help” Formula – Social Skills Self Development Made Easy! (Stephan Erdman)

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train of thought: the bullshit of the self-help industry-

i give my thoughts & opinions on the self-help frauds & scam artists in the world,who market their products at weak & vulnerable people who are desperate for…

48 thoughts on “The 3 Step “Self Help” Formula – Social Skills Self Development Made Easy! (Stephan Erdman)

  1. can you count getting buzzed and talking to girls progress? progress as in
    getting better at talking with women

  2. I dont think I can buy your programs, but you need to set up a donation
    system, I’d definitely make an effort to donate when I do have money.

  3. what about your life is that u can implement all of this things in your
    personal life if u dont mind dear 

  4. Hi,

    Great video and I just have to say all of your stuff is very good. I think
    it’s important to say that your advice is useful in all aspects of life in
    addition to our personal lives. If I weren’t in between jobs at the moment
    I would definitely be in your program! Thanks for sharing.

  5. Not getting joy trying to use and implement methods, tips or ideas? This is
    the 3 step formula I use to learn any new social skill!

  6. Very Nice tips Stehpan! But could you make a video about how to
    communicate/conversate better with your girlfriend? I seem to have a
    problem with that.

  7. I feel like I’m in the opposite boat, probably because I’ve got a condition
    that makes me anxious the moment I start feeling any little stress, so
    whatever pot does to you doesn’t stack up with what my body does xD. Weed
    can be therapeutic, just try analyzing roots of your anxiety whenever you
    smoke. Marajuana is a mild inhibitor of neuron firing, resulting in couch
    lock, but also can slow the patterns of thought that cause the anxiety
    enough to spot their triggers and origins.SMOKE WEED E’RYDAY

  8. I realized after one of the few times I approached a girl i actually enjoy
    flirting. However, I imagine things that discourage me. I worry about
    things like age or whether they like black guys. Any tips to overcome the
    barriers I tend to set for myself?

  9. Your a genius. This is exactly what I was missing and I was trying to
    figure out what I should do next and how to solve this, but this is it!

  10. Hi Stephan I have enjoyed your videos, and I’ve used your mental pre-play
    track. Also I’ve used it in a real life situation with a girl I’m
    interested that worked at a local store. I’ve talked to her twice, and both
    interactions were pretty good. I have however been thrown a loop. She has
    been transferred to another store on the other side of the city where I
    live.

  11. Great video – probably most useful and ‘down to earth’ advice I watched on
    YouTube when it comes to personality training

  12. sure i will implement it,,and wanna thanx for sharing video..”how can i
    make this day the best day of my life” was helpful to smile every day with
    so much reason around..thanx again teacher..

  13. The reason why the self help industry exists is precisely because people do
    not help themselves.
    The core of self help is not the law of atraction, but helping yourself
    (taking action to improve your own life).
    This being said, you did a pretty good job at making a self help video
    (though I’m guessing this was not your intention).
    But there is no need to buy self help dvd’s. The internet (youtube
    especially) i full of them.

  14. I agree with this guy, and pretty much everything he’s said in the video.
    These self-help people pretty much spout nonsense and long phrases without
    actually offering anything alien to the subscriber, or anything new
    of substance.

    These self-help folks are also promoting a dangerous paradigm as well,
    especially this Law of Attraction, where people are encouraged to be
    selfish and hedonistic. It justifies eliminating people from our lives who
    may need our help, because they’ll bring us down. I’m not even going into
    the detail about the persistant victim blaming mentality. Where’s the
    empathy and concern for the welfare of others with this self-help kool aid?

    Most of these self-help gurus are like banks and snake oil salesmen, they
    take your money without putting anything of value back into the system. As
    far as quantum mechanics ‘proving’ self-help ideologies, where did these
    authors get their degrees in physics? Did they get their degrees in
    physics from a cereal box or a diploma mill?

    The only thing that has helped me (I was homeless and grew up in poverty)
    was motivation, hardwork, and being there for others when they needed it
    the most. In turn many people helped me out. We need a more empathetic
    society, not more hedonistic self-help BS. My long post is for those whom
    may get ripped off by these con-artists (aka positive bullies). Make these
    self-help gurus actually work for a living by simply avoiding purchasing
    their nonsense.

  15. yes, bollox. “picture that hot girl in your dream board” –that’s some
    creeper shit. like dahmer / bundy shit.

  16. I’ll check it out for sure,they are all the same,con-artists,all full of
    b.s,i don’t understand how they still get away with their scams,there are
    just lots of depressed,broke,lonely and weak people who think that others
    can lift them out of the toilet for a small fee.

  17. The author of ‘Screw Work Let’s Play’ also claims that he is a counsellor
    and psychotherapist, a total total evil lie. He has a certificate in
    coaching which means he has access to vulnerable people. His fake therpaist
    friends also have zero qualifications and are incapable of debate, just
    abuse when somebody criticises the non-ideas in his book. Google: scanner
    central to see a money-grabbing lunatic suckering a whole lot of people on
    an international scale. Just evil and dishonest to the core.

  18. good video! i was a sucker for this self-help bullshit. they were clever,
    and new how to prey on our weaknesses.

  19. Dude I was a sucker for something worse….. these “get your ex back
    programs” LOL!!!! OMG this is so sad :(:(:(:( In the end… she still had
    the last word.. –NO.

  20. Alot of what you are saying is true: the law of attraction is utter
    nonsense. But you are making a mistake by painting all these speakers with
    the same brush.

  21. You would probably enjoy S.H.A.M: How the Self-Help and Actualization
    Movement Made America Helpless. I know I did!

  22. So true! I hate all these “gurus”. I try to help some of my close relatives
    get over all this crap but it is very difficult! Thanks for making and
    posting the video. It is good to have such rants!

  23. I agree. And if they are millionaires they do not want to hear the idea
    that luck played a part in it. Because luck is what you can not control.
    You can work on your attitude and yes even raise your odds but when the
    moment of truth comes we are all at the mercy of luck. You can be the same
    clone as Bill Gates and wind up on the street because of unforeseen and
    uncontrollable events. Some of the big tycoons hate that idea because it
    means their life style can end and there is little they can do.

  24. There is no bigger self-help bullshit book than ‘Screw Work Let’s Play’.
    Written by an obscure wage-slave who has risen to running a cult dedicated
    to himself. The author is a chronic narcissist, actually deeply mentally
    ill. He exploits the hopes of desperate people who of course want to change
    their lives. He even gets his fake therapist friends to rate his book and
    slag off people who criticise his bullshit book. These people are not even
    honest enough to admit that they know the author.

  25. Watch this video which supports this man’s claim about the reality of self
    help hysteria /watch?v=XdpgaUf2RK8

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